Lesson's from the Unsorted Life: 5 Things My Chaos Taught Me

 Lessons from the Unsorted Life 

                   -aka things I've learned from overthinking at 2a.m and dancing in my room at 2p.m.

   "Life lessons gathered from beautiful messes."

Life isn’t a straight line. It’s more like scribbles on a napkin at a café you’ll never visit again. And honestly? That’s kind of the vibe I live by. This post isn’t a guide. It’s just me collecting all the little “aha” and “ugh” moments that shaped me. Lessons that came from chaos, not clarity.

Overthinking Isn't Insight- It's Exhaustion 

                "I thought myself into pieces."       

                           
I used to believe overthinking made me smarter. Spoiler: it didn’t. It just made me tired, anxious, and emotionally numb. Now, I let thoughts pass like clouds — not storms. 
          
"Some thoughts are just visitors. Don't build them home."

Not All Friendships Are Meant To Last- and That's okay 

              "They weren't toxic. They were just temporary."   
                                                                                                     
Outgrowing people doesn’t mean you hate them. It means you’re choosing peace over pretending. Cherish the memories, but don’t force the connection.

"Some people are lessons in disguise."

Healing Isn't Aesthetic 
               "It's not yoga mats and green smoothies.
                 Sometimes it's just surviving the day." 
                                                                                        

The internet sells self-care as spa days and Pinterest routines. But healing is messy. It’s crying in the shower, deleting texts, and forcing yourself to eat something.

"Healing is ugly. And still, it's beautiful."

You can be a Work in Progress and Still be Proud of Yourself
                  "You're not behind. You're just unfolding." 
                                                                                             
There’s no timeline to “get your life together.” Celebrate how far you’ve come, even if no one claps for you.

"Progress isn't always a checkmark."

Chaos has its Own kind of Magic
                 "Not having it all figured out made space for the unexpected." 
                                                                                                                       

Some of my best memories came from things I never planned. From missed trains to late-night conversations with strangers. Chaos made room for magic.

"Unplanned doesn't mean unworthy."



WRAP UP
These lessons didn’t come to me wrapped in quotes or perfect moments. They arrived quietly — in breakdowns, awkward silences, long walks, and late-night texts I never sent. Life’s messy. But there’s something really beautiful about not having it all together.

"Still figuring it out
Still not sorted ."

                                                                                                                                                     -Love❤